Proverbs 18:22 - Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
FYI: To findeth, is to secure or acquire. A good thing, is one who deserves the title and is highly capable of performing the duties of the relation. Such a woman, cannot be found by a man's own diligence, but rather by the Most High's good providence. So having a good wife is truly a great blessing to a man, and it is a token of divine favor. Relationships that are rooted in Christ, are firmly fixed for they are not swaying which ever way the wind blows upon the sea, because they are built upon the word of the Most High, and the word of the Most High is forever settled in heaven. Therefore just as no man can go up to the heavens and put asunder the word of the Most High, neither can no man put asunder that which is obtained by divine favor of the Most High. In times of storms when your feeling tired and tried and persecuted, these are the times you gain strength to endure by finding comfort in submission unto the Most High's commandments. Being in unison helps brings about wisdom and grace, which once these two dissolve in your mind, they open your heart with ease toward forgiveness. Thus forming a umbrella around your heart to keep it from being struck by the lightning cares of the world which are in place to lure you away.
With faith as your umbrella you achieve victory in walking the path toward eternal life, rather than a life upon a path that seem dim. Cause all it takes is for your feet to get wet (mind forming thoughts), and then you'll be trying to swim. See when your outside of the favor of the Most High, your relationships will always seem as if their drowning, because the sheep's your counting in your dreams (diary) are whom upon the Most High is frowning. This society is in complete rebellion against unification, which is why it sets your compatibility upon measures of things that have no spiritual edification. This society teaches you to know what a man does to earn money and what he drives and where he lives, instead of teaching you how to set your affections upon knowing his mind to see whether its with one accord on doing the Most High's will. One of the greatest joys you can give to a man is the satisfaction of knowing that you can be trusted, rather than him becoming disgusted by your behaviour and finding out that another man or woman done busted.(nut) Let your character be as an emblem of innocence that a man can believe in, cause when you make it your business to do a man good, you'll never have to worry about trying to get even.
Therefore you'll never have to worry about splitting, cause when your intent upon giving as getting, you show one of the truest forms of submitting. No greater fashion than love and kindness sewn as clothing upon a woman's heart is that which can leave a man sprung. Causing her to outfit the value of the world cause the warranty of her essence are not found in her hips breasts or behind, but rather the beauty of the wisdom upon her tongue. When your beauty is of manufactured cosmetics what you have to offer a man can get from whomever whenever. But when your comfort is in the inward parts of your body, then the pleasure of your elements are after true beauty which is of the soul and lasts forever. Only can such a honor come from the Most High as an ornament of decoration to your house. A woman that fears the Most High and keeps his commandments, is truly a honourable beloved and respected spouse.
Ecclesiasticus 7:21. Depart not from a wise and good wife, whom thou hast gotten in the fear of the Lord: for the grace of her modesty is above gold.