Tell each other often, that you are worthy of each other's love, then when out in the eye of the public walking hand in hand, slowly let go of your partner's hand. Woman stand with your hand on your hips, man you stand with your left hand on your chin, and your right hand in your pocket, and just smile at your partner and admire them. Then open your mouth and let them know that they give you all the more reason, to feel good about yourself, don't be shy, openly promote your care for their well being. Man if a another man walks by, stop them and say excuse me sir I don't mean to take up much of your time, but I have been admiring this beautiful eye candy right here, isn't she beautiful? This will even make the stranger's day, giving them something to smile about that they didn't expect, while at the same time causing your woman to blush, and adding more excitement and assurance of her self worth, into a positive self conceptualization.
Keep your woman in high esteem, woman if you see another lady walk by, stop her and say excuse me mam, I don't mean to take up much of your time, but I have been admiring this handsome man right here, you think he looks good enough for me to give him my phone number? This will your man love, because it gives him the opportunity to notice himself being admired still by someone of the opposite sex, and the thought of his woman making this effort, will boost his happiness and give him a more stable sense of respect and integrity toward himself. A woman that can openly draw attention such as this toward her man, will not have to be worrying about him going outside of their relationship looking for it, cause this increases his sexual desire toward her, bringing both to a very blissful climax. What you two will have accomplished by doing this, is further building and enhancing confidence not only in yourself, but in yourselves collectively as well. Always show before talking, your eagerness to maintain your partner's right to achieve happiness beyond just being a state of mind, by your actions of respecting and defending their interests and needs.
This keeps a balance within your relationship, so that one doesn't feel as if the other has a shortage of care and understandings in regards to their values, and keeps the other joyfully compassionate about seeking ways to please you, and desirous of your input on things. Its very beautiful let me tell you, when your partner has absolute confidence in you, because then it lessens the impact factor of outsiders having influence upon them, and causing problems within your relationship. This makes an essential contribution to the growth process between the two of you, establishing your bond as being indispensable, thus keeping the both of you in remembrance of the important aspect you each play in each other's self development, and places value upon survival. So knowing you need each other, and knowing that their is none other out in society that is better suited to service you as your partner does, keeps you anchored together on clear faith, not blind hocus pocus close your eyes make three wishes type of faith. If you going to be on your knees, let it be between each other's altar with your eyes closed and your hands laying on a healing, while your mouth is open as your lips give way to you speaking with your tongue.
If it be amazing, then you shall find grace in being an experience unforgettable in your partner's consciousness, thus when they make choices, you shall be included in mind, their thoughts, their feelings, and their actions. Seek and strive daily to put in the work, to make your partner feel confidently capable of overcoming any challenge in life, make them feel able and show them the importance of their worth as a person. This keep them firmly upon solid ground, and erases any thought of them feeling overwhelmed and useless and doubtful of their ability, and thus gives no room for insecurity to reinforce itself. Compliment them on their decisions, never tell them that they are wrong, instead if they be wrong, you inwardly evaluate where their off at on a matter, and you find a way to enhance their decision, into a proper right, and outwardly present it before them, in a manner of better benefit unto themselves can their decisions be, if you both tried this approach you thought of together. Now take a minute and re-read that part again, and tell me the author is not smooth. 60 50 40 30 20 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1, your minute is up, I appreciate your recognition give yourself a round of applause cause you see this truth lol.
Now lets keep it pimpin baby in Jesus name lol, always practice ways to uplift your partner, this keeps them in a wisely state of mind, and helps further increase positivity into developing within their self esteem. This keeps them adaptable to various situations that might occur in life, cause when the mind and soul are flexible in unison, the better can your partner resist everything that would otherwise make them fall into failure or desperation while in the body. Firmly believe in each other's values and principles, and be ready to defend them at the drop of a dime, and be secure enough to be able to modify them in light of experience as you two grow stronger and wiser together. Trust each other's judgment, never make the other feel guilty of their choice, and work on building off the past in order to plan for the future, while living in the present intensely. Completely with all your heart, trust in each other's capacity to solve problems, surround yourself with a inner circle of experienced spiritual intellects who are at such a high degree, that if need be you two can ask them for advice when you may need it.
Just because they may be more knowledgeable, never consider yourselves lower than them, but rather consider yourselves equal in dignity to them, rather than inferior or superior, this rids envy and hatred and malice from taking root, and establishes acceptance of differences in certain subjects and areas and gifts and talents, that others may possess. Never think its cool for someone to isolate the two of you and speak to you separate, this gives room for motives of the individual to be sought out for their own manipulation purposes, instead you and your partner collaborate with others only if it seems appropriate and convenient and you both mutually agree. Love that woman love that man, so much so that when they arise in the morning, they can look at you and caress your face and kiss your lips, knowing your love allows them to face life with more confidence, benevolence, and optimism. This formats them to be more ambitious, but not with respect to acquiring material possessions or financial success, but rather with respect to what they can experience emotionally, creatively and most of all spiritually. Strive daily to widen the smile you see upon their face, present before them an atmosphere with the capacity of feeling happy and important and desired and needed and love, and they will know that you make it your mission and top priority, to show them they deserve happiness.
This fundamental, is very beneficial and promotes goodwill, because it enables one to easily love their neighbor as themselves, and to treat other people with the same respect, care, joy, and love that they receive from you their partner. When you establish this within your relationship at home, you give yourselves hope of a brighter future, because you have the ability and power, to influence others in a informative positive manner, for the better benefit of themselves. Which this sparks a chain reaction leaving a strong impression upon someone else, to where they go back and bestow it upon another, then another, which this goes to show you, you change society by changing yourselves. You yes you, as a unit as a whole, have the ability and power by way of your thoughts, to shape the world on the outside, to be in harmony with the one you two have created within yourselves on the inside. This would keep depression away when your in society, anxiety away when your in your workplace, because you maintain such a high level of esteem not only toward yourself, but for others as well. Which goes to show you that, can't nobody make you feel low, without you feeling low toward yourself already, neither can you feel low about someone else, without already feeling low about yourself.
So what you think of others, is really an expression of a confession, in regards to how you feel about yourself, and when always thinking highly of yourself, you can always view your neighbor as the same, wouldn't be no problems in society if people could practice this. These relationships are crashing and burning, because the people have swallowed the religious lies of the Roman Catholic Church, and have followed their moral patterns, and have mistaken sex for intimacy. Lets a call a spade a spade, acceptance doesn't come from a dick, nor can it be found in a vagina, it comes first in a inclining, not a declining, family structure that teaches self worth, self regard, self respect, and self integrity. You have the right to love yourself, its only by learning to love yourself, will you first find happiness, peace, and bliss, and once you know what it is, you can't be deceived by the false identity others present it as when approaching you. Understand that loving yourself, is a feeling of being centered and rooted and calm from within, and upon finding this within yourself, then can you help others to be like this also, and bring love in abundance to the lives of others, as well as when you enter into a relationship.
Discipline yourself woman, discipline yourself man, to practice doing things that are not only good for yourself, but good for others, then can you do right by your neighbor because you don't do wrong for yourself. Learn to tell yourself upon being tempted by doing bad or desiring things bad for yourself, no, I shall not, this is going to make a difference in a negative manner upon my life, because little things add up regardless of size, and I myself am too focused to be self deprived, therefore must I keep my eyes on the prize. Repeat this to yourself so that it may be stored in your subconscious, cause eventually it becomes an automatic belief that strengthens your character, that helps you to respect yourself and others, and perfect yourself before you finally decide to settle down. Again I repeat, the more you learn to respect yourself, the more you will learn to respect others, and upon taking a partner, you will be able to respect their basic rights of being a person, so know that you must first love yourself. This is the first moral discipline that is overlooked purposely by these religious and educational institutions, who measure of truth does not exceed the boundaries of eligibility for grant and loan money from the State and Government.
Only through learning to love yourself, will you first find happiness, peace, and bliss, and once you know what it is, you can't be deceived by the false identity others present it as when approaching you. The Controllers teach you love for yourself, is egotistical, arrogant, cocky, all to make you feel low in esteem in regards to yourself, therefore they can lay out the patterns for you to choose, who you shall become in life by, which they make you feel as if your not yourself, just so they can sell you the illusion of attending their religious services and educational institutions, just to find yourself. But if you use good common sense, you would see they never told you what age you lost yourself, which shows you somebody has been playing you for a monkey fool. This is how the Controllers of the Matrix can step in and offer you television, cd players and ipods, computers and video games, sports, cell phones, material possessions and sex, all as subliminal means to help you remain occupied in ignorance of fulfilling your longings by their means. People are cheating left and right, out of complete ignorance which they are only cheating on themselves, because it is their conscious do they betray, not their partners.
Love is not physical, so how can you expect to lay down and obtain grasping it? Love is not something you can smell, so how can you lay down and expect to taste it? Love is not words which produce sound, so how can you lay down and expect to hear it? Love is not a key on a ring, so how can you breakup the chain and expect to lose it? Welcome to Macquirelatory 101 today, you going to school, because too many people are dying of emotional starvation, and they are looking for something non physical to digest, in wrong food places, and wonder why after a storm, there is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Intimacy springs from verbal and emotional communion, when two people are committed to honesty, love and freedom of each other's speech and feelings and beliefs. Its not sex, let me repeat, intimacy is not sex and it has nothing to do with your organs. When you run out in society with your tongue hanging like a tired hyena, you bound to have to use your hands in places where you didn't expect to scratch. Don't you be retarded to follow a pattern not designed by you, which makes you feel as if your less of a person, if your not out having sex.
Understand that when you let your third leg out of your pants before it is disciplined, you end up jumping the fence and ending up in your neighbor's yard, to where he or she takes you in, and you end up short circuiting the emotional bonding process you would have had otherwise, had your ignorant behind would have been disciplined. Therefore when you get into a relationship with someone finally, your unthoughtful experiences will lead to dissatisfaction in your marriage, which otherwise wouldn't be present, had you would have waited to sit down on the sofa of your husband or wife lap, to get up leaving an impression. Sexual happiness grows through years of intimate relationship development, as two people spend more time in conversation, in problem solving, and in emotional communion, in spiritual enlightenment, than they do in the bed. Please understand what I just said, cause when you have knowledge of your partner, truly will you know intimacy and good sex, begins in your understanding of them mentally in the head. When your out here having sex with someone and your not married to them, but rather waiting on them to come around, then you are settling for who you are, which is a second rate version of someone else, because if you were more important, you two would be dwelling together as a family.
But understand when your just sleeping with someone your not married to, or have slept with someone your not married to, and waiting on them to come around, your nothing but a second hand meals on wheels sandwich, ain't nothing hearty about putting you up to the lips, your not appetizing at all. Be able to feel intimacy and closeness with your partner, when you talk, touch, and share thoughts and feelings with each other, guys you a punk when you can't be emotional with your woman. Drop that macho pattern society has given you, and see the Controllers only designed the pattern, to make you feel hard in joining their military. The two of you should look at each other as if your the most precious thing in life, to one another, and take your time with developing a relationship. Envision the joy in going through the stages of getting to know each other, then becoming friends, and you will be more aroused, when you do begin touching and kissing and licking and hugging and rubbing, and showing affection. Man understand, that this is what a real woman likes, and when you follow as I just stated, you learn that when you do get around to sex, a woman will feel closeness with you, and will not mind nor be doubtful in having sex with you, because her belief was established by your actions, that the two of you truly are in agreement and love.
And woman compliment that man when he does go through the stages, make him feel as if he is rare and special, and better than any man in the world, cause ain't nothing cute if he leaves you with a child, and your child be done seen 2 or more men come into your life and they still don't have a daddy, then are you dirt trash, low enough to crawl up under an ant belly and sleep with it. If you don't have that close feeling between each other when you have sex, even with an orgasm, shall it still not be as satisfying as it would have had you had that closeness. Don't ever push each other toward sex, you can cause interest to be lost swiftly, and without having love established for each other, sexual-timing incompatibilities can cause the other to find humor at your expense. Give patience and closeness and love a chance to flourish, and you will not have to find yourself enjoying having sex the second or third or more times around. Another thing that is very key, is to know about your partner's sexual history, to be sure they are not carrying any hidden infections, that may affect your sexual health. Even if you have to on your own, do research over who they have previously dated in their past, you inquiring is showing your self love for yourself.
There is nothing cool about going mountain climbing with no helmet or rope, no matter how skilled you are, because dangers lurk that could expose you to a greater risk of injury or death. Same thing when you just jumping into the bed with someone whose sexual history you know absolutely nothing about, you playing yourself for a lottery ticket. Cause just as you don't drive down the road with your eyes closed, neither do you drop your pants to engage in any kind of sexual activity with someone who's sexual history you know nothing about. STD is not a sandwich at Subway, its not Salami, Turkey, Dill Pickle, its Should've Thought Differently, before you go down faster than an fatherless child at a Catholic Priest Pajama altar party. Establish a relationship based on open and trusting communication, therefore you will not be in the dark in regards to things that need to be brought to the light. The Matrix Loop of Love, has destroyed the identity of young men, and has been the leading factor to so many women being sexually violated by men. How so, because the social message from society to its males is that real men don't show emotions, thus leaving the men with only sex, anger, and humor as exceptions.
They are taught to be big and strong and tough, so they can become soldiers dying for a country that doesn't give three cents about them. So they tend to grow up being unemotional, and have a hard time trying to identify, share, understand, and work with their feelings, which this produces liars. Most men don't even know how they are feeling, because they were taught their whole life to ignore their feelings, to be emotional is to be soft, which makes them less than a man. But yet society has the nerves to tell them to stand up to their responsibilities and be a man, failing to ask how can he in his adult hood if he was trained this way since his childhood? So this is already going to cause problems once he enters a relationship, cause denial of his emotions corrupts him to begin lying for fear of being shamed, and cause a lack of trust for people, because he know not how to be emotionally social with others. So sex tends to be the one he takes up, out of his choices of anger and humor, and in it does he feel safe enough to be openly emotional, thus does he let his guard down and become vulnerable.
Remember ladies, a man's ego and pride, is very sensitive before and during and after sex, and sex opens men up to rejection, and sexual rejects do they often take as personal rejections. Being not in tune to their emotions, is why men aren't able to distinguish between the rejection of them sexually, and the rejection of them as a whole person. If their little ego and pride is stepped on, they will not express that their hurt, because society has taught them that is a weakness against their manhood. So they will tend to blow up and argue and get mad, and withdraw, and detach and distant themselves, thus leaving another woman violated, or either another home broken. Present each other with an atmosphere that makes each other feel comfortable enough, to reveal both of your innermost ideas and needs, that will enable you both to have peace in your hearts and mind. Then once you two come to yourselves with a sense of power and love, ah man, let me tell you, you will reach such an high level in arousal your head will literally fill like its about to explode, trust me daily do I face death because of this sexual narcotic that keeps the mind flowing erotic, leaving you in a daze feeling so hypnotic.
Lol its beautiful, you and your partner will find this out as well, always watch when your partner is busy unsuspecting a touch from you, and casually graze behind them with a blindfold over their eyes, then put your arms around their waist, begin kissing their neck and working your tongue down their back, and you'll end up energizing them right where they stand, and that's an amazing fact. Always seek to open your heart to your partner, write them a lovely note scented in your perfume or cologne and leave it upon the bathroom mirror. In the note, tell them which qualities about them open your heart, describe the way they make you feel, let them know your the best thing that has ever happened to them, just as much as they are the best thing that has ever happened for you. Your gonna have to call me up to get the mature exclusive, and let me warn you, its going to be realer than ever before when you might have conversed with me before, in regards to this nature. Shalom
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