Psalm 127:1 - Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

FYI: The key pillar to establishing a family, is having understanding of the Most High's laws and statutes and commandments, for they are the foundation in which a home should be centered upon. They are the only concrete constitution that when written upon your heart and mind, and dissolved in your soul, can't no man make any amendments to because they leave no loop for a hole. When you meditate upon them night and day, they begin to format your reasoning and become the base pattern of your thoughts, thus stimulating them to become a habit. After becoming a habit, you find yourself being led by an invisible hand behind the wheel of this life, that guides you into incorporating the principles of them into the structure of your every element. Which then enables you to translate righteous ideas into a design layout, so that you can evaluate the course of development of that which you aspire to construct, in this case being a family. Understand that any man can have the skill on how to till, but if his heart is not purely centered upon his Creator's will, all his labour is going downhill. When your not in compliance to the righteousness of the Most High's constitution, all your hope and plans are covered in ash black as the ink of a pen, stamped at the root showing your living veto.

FYI: All of your instructions on how to labour are inside of the living manual known as the bible, it informs you of the concentrated energy you'll need and the process to go through in order to bring into fruition a spiritual biological family union. Always keep in mind that without the Most High you are nothing, and if you are building and he is not first priority in your mind, then your not going to produce righteous children for him, and your union is about as meaningful as sunglasses in a dark movie theater, its useless. Just as the Most High allowed the people to exist together for a little while building the tower of babel, surely he will allow your relationship to exist for a little while then confound the desires of your heart and mind to where you two can no longer understand each other. Your practices for establishing a family must be biblically sounded, or else in your next relationship you'll have to settle as being a substitute parent of another man sperm. Lets keep it real now, if you keep the Most High centered in your heart and mind putting him first, he'll bless you beyond the methods that you can produce on your own, because it is him that dwells within you which blesses your labor, and this is what you must know before taking on the cohabitation appearance of a family.

Question: So what did the Most High create from the beginning?

Genesis 5:2 - Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.

FYI: A union of the Most High consists of a man and a woman, unions of Satan consist of a woman and woman and a man and another man, which is why the unions of Satan have to adopt children in order to have the traditional makeup of a family, because their in direct disobedience to the constitution of the Most High. So there is nothing there to build except anxiety and disappointment and sin which leads to burning in the lake of fire, cause it is a union with a floating foundation upon a immoral declaration that's against creation. So you should seek to a build a family consisting of a man and a woman, for neither are independent of the other, but rather are mutually dependent upon each other seeing as how they come from one flesh. The woman was made to be a mutual helper unto the man, not a grief and a headache and a troublesome shame, but rather one to bring glory unto his name. Understand that 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says - What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

FYI: For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. So if "ye" being in reference to a man and woman, are not their own, then how can a woman or man claim they independent without casting the Most High God of Israel aside to glorify Satan? They can't, cause if their suppose to be of the Most High then the blood of his Son was the purchasing power that bought possession of them, thus making them have a owner. So if they have a owner (father) that means their is a set way of living that he requires them to conduct themselves accordingly, which means to be independent is to reject that order of their Creator and deny the value of the blood that was shed by his Son for them.

FYI: This is also not the frame of mind you want to have when thinking of building a family or choosing a mate who thinks their independent, cause the Spirit behind it is of Satan, which gurantees your relationship to crumble and lead you to being in another relationship where you are reduced to a substitute parent of another man sperm. This is why it is very key when establishing a family, to have understanding of the Most High's laws and statutes and commandments, for they are the foundation in which a home should be centered upon. The Most High established the union of marriage for a man and a woman to glorify him in and rear up children unto him, so if your having sex without someone you have no covenant agreement with, you a cheap a whore that's being used like a cue tip, and what you produce could have been better off in a towel or a sock or a napkin. Understand the seriousness of your actions, when your looking to build a family all selfishness must be out the window, in order for you to function as one flesh.

Question: How did the Most High build the first family?

Genesis 2:21 - And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;

FYI: When a doctor gets ready to perform surgery, he gives a patient some anesthesia in which the anesthesia blocks or temporarily takes away the feeling of pain. Why, because this allows the patient to undergo surgery without distress and pain they would otherwise experience. So when the Most High caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, him causing is symbolic to a doctor giving a patient anesthesia. How, cause when a person receives anesthesia, it causes them to fall into a deep sleep, thus blocking or temporarily taking away the feeling of pain, which is what happen to Adam. So while under this form of medication, the doctor is able to open up the flesh without the person feeling any pain, and then sow them back together. The Most High operated in the form of a doctor upon Adam, cause while Adam was under he was able to open up the flesh. Adam didn't feel no pain, and then the Most High pulled from him a rib and then sowed back up the flesh instead thereof.

FYI: So what you must understand, is that when the flesh is open its separate from the rest of the flesh on the body. So in order to form the union which would become the outlines for marriage, the Most High had to bring that which was separate, back to being one. So that which was twain is no longer, cause upon the closing of the flesh instead thereof, marriage is established. Therefore the union of one flesh is instituted, and no one was apart of that union between man and woman but the Most High. So the nakedness that which was flesh, is only to be seen by the man and the Most High, not your doctor he ain't got no business seeing your wife nakedness. When you open up flesh what comes from it? Blood comes from the opening of flesh so therefore the rib which was taken from Adam passed through blood.

Question: So what did the Most High do with this rib he taken out from Adam?

Genesis 2:22 - And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

FYI: So from the rib the Most High made, keyword, made, a woman, then he brought her unto the man. By him bringing her unto the man, he is uniting the flesh of the man back to himself thus causing that which was separate, to become whole.

Genesis 2:23 - And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

FYI: Adam recognized himself in the woman and by him perceiving her as his flesh, is him acknowledging that the bone which was taken out of him came through blood which gives life to the flesh. Therefore he could identify her as being of him thus making them one flesh thus establishing the union of marriage. So what ought men to do? Ephesians 5:28 - So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. Breath is what Adam and Eve had in them, which that breath is called the Ruwach, its the spirit of the Most High. So in order for a man to be able to see himself inside of a woman, he must first have the spirit of the Most High which is without sin in him, because Adam received it without sin being in him. Therefore by him having it in him, he becomes to possess a sense of self love, self understanding, self respect, self discipline, which formats him to having the knowledge of himself. Then upon that recognition, he can hold in high value the things which stem from himself, and love that which stems from him as his own body, such as a woman. Therefore in loving her he loveth himself because he knows who he is and who created him, therefore he knows where the woman comes from, himself. This gives him not the composition of a woman, but the definition of a woman which gives her a purpose which is why she was made, for a purpose. This is why it is very key when establishing a family, to have understanding of the Most High's laws and statutes and commandments, for they are the foundation in which a home should be centered upon.

Deuteronomy 22:15 - Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:

FYI: When a man was interested in a woman, he would go to her father and let him know he desired his daughter. Some cases he paid the father in shekels and in some cases he did work for the father as a form of payment for his daughter, and in most cases oaths and vows were taken between the two parties, thus establishing the marriage. The father would give the man a sheet which was to be used in the bed chambers when he went in unto his wife. So when they would be in the chambers the man would lay out the sheet, and him and his wife would proceed to have sex. Her hymen would break and the blood would come down on the sheet thus showing she was a virgin, thus making a righteous exchange between the father and the man. Then they would come out and display the sheet before their family, and they would celebrate the righteous exchange of them becoming one flesh. Now I showed you this for reason, because remember the rib of the woman was taken out of the flesh of the man, thus causing the rib to pass through blood, thus sealing or closing up the flesh instead thereof, forming the union of marriage. The blood sealed the covenant. This is why sex should not be taken so lightly but instead very serious, because when you lay down with that person cuddled against the warmth of their body and sweat, the passion and lust between the two generates a magnetic atmosphere of mutual understanding.

FYI: So when the two are nearing climax, the emotional intensity of the act which is going to raise the lust and desire level even higher. So upon the man releasing into the woman, all his emotions just went into her, and upon her releasing on him, he just embraced hers, while the both unknowingly have no idea they just formed a bond together. What is a bond, its an agreement a mutual understanding between two parties, that is sealed by blood, its a covenant. Little do most know, that when they are having intercourse, blood is still passed through the semen whether the woman is a virgin or not, the two just became one. Why do you think a man gets jealous when another man tries to talk to his woman or when he thinks another man is looking at his woman or when he is no longer with his woman and someone else is? Why do you think a woman does the same thing? Why do you think she goes all out to bash the windows of another woman car or to slash her tires?

FYI: Same reason for both, they have a bond from the mutual agreement they made when they had sex, they gave their value to that person, and to see them with someone else they feel as if they been betrayed, cause they thought they were theirs cause of the understanding they subsconsciously didn't know they established through sex. This is why it is very key when establishing a family, to have understanding of the Most High's laws and statutes and commandments, for they are the foundation in which a home should be centered upon. Your practices for establishing a family must be biblically sounded, or else in your next relationship you'll have to settle as being a substitute parent of another man sperm. Ain't nothing cute about being a step mama or step daddy, just like running a race no one enters to become number 2. When you keep the Most High first priority, he'll guide you to building that which he established, which is a spiritual biological union.