Blind Date

Blind is dealing with something obscure and when something is obscure, its not visible its unclear. So knowing that off the top, and attaching it to the word "date", lets you know that determining how things are going to go, is unclear. This is where people begin to deceive themselves into faith being a factor of determining things, when really it be their wishful thinking. So their beliefs are going to help them assess and judge, to guide them to make a decision according to what might be pleasing to imagine. This is a problem, because their going to form a mental image of something they desire, that is not present or that is not the case, and this is how the conscious overrides the subconscious, by emphasizing what is not there, rather than appealing to evidence, and reality. And you see this today, many people walking around in an illusion of a fantasy, never realizing their relationship is more susceptible to failure, because belief not rooted in truth, can never be consistent with reality.

So once things begin to happen outside of the mental image that was formed, it brings about frustration the more things start to go wrong, thus causing the image to slowly fade. This prompts an overwhelming feeling of fear and anxiety over a person, at the thought of events happening that cause the mental image to completely fade. So the individual tends to become more defensive in reality by trying to put forth a more determined effort to keep the fantasy in frame. This is when they become mastered by their emotions, and as reality begins to set in more as things occur that causes the image to fade, an explosion into reality occurs as the illusion of a fantasy falls apart, and the person actually thinks in reality, that their world is coming to an end, never realizing that they were living in an illusion outside of reality. What else did they expect from something that stem from a blind date? Anytime you go into business blind of the legal aspects of it, your business is destined to crash, that's a bad move to go into anything blind, you don't conduct business in such a manner.

But yet people never realize a relationship is a business also, but yet they go into it blind all the time, and never realize they subconsciously know this, which is why when people want to know how their relationship is going, they tell them "stay out of my business". Bad investment it is to get involved with someone who is always in relationship after relationship after relationship, that tells you right there, that they do bad business or their not skillful and intelligent enough to stop selecting bad partners. Now you can understand as to how come job companies look to hire people who have had years of experience of being with one company, rather than several. When you trying to get an apartment, their looking to see if you have been with your current employer for at least 12 months, such a person who has not, their not trying to do business with them, because they would be taking a risk of getting screwed, because they have nothing clear and visible as evidence showing them "certainty".

So taking that risk, would they be going on a blind date with that person, because determining how things are going to go, is unclear. These youngsters today have the game twisted very bad, they go out to a party at a club, and then one of them gets up and goes over to the girl or guy their friend finds interesting, and points at them trying to hook him up. See what they fail to realize is that, tired ran down game is nothing more than advertising. So how could they expect something long lasting and meaningful to stem from it, when advertisement is only meant to lure a person in, to spend money on what's being advertised? So these youngsters don't even realize their playing themselves like whores, when they at the club and go up to a person and get their phone number, they be all excited thinking they did something. Not even realizing, that if they call that person the next day and begin telling them something about themselves, they telemarketing.

So they shouldn't even be mad if the other person they met doesn't return their call, because no one calls back a telemarketer, when they call you pretend like your somebody else. Then what really trips me out with these youngsters, is when they be out at a party at the club, and see someone they like, they brush themselves off and adjust their clothing, then walk over to the person of interest. They begin shaking hands or greet each other with a smile and a hug and begin dancing together, and then act like nothing happened when the person is wanting to go out with them often or have sex with them. What they fail to realize, is that they just established public relations, so that image they portrayed themselves as being of at the club, is what the other person is going to expect them to maintain, because they established the other person interest based off their public image at the party.

These young people man I tell you, they actually think its cute to be known for having good sex, failing to realize anyone that takes interest in them for that reason, is doing so based on Brand recognition, cause they have acquired a reputation that has branded their name. Such a person is not seen as being marriage material, but rather gets treated like what they are, which is no different than Spam, which is junk that is unwanted by the average person, so it gets treated like trash. Understand that anytime a friend convinces someone to like you or go home with you, they are a Sales Rep. What elese get me is when they meet someone on a blind date and date them for a while, become unsatisfied with them like they are a product, then call up someone else to satisfy them, failing to realize that blind date fall apart counter reaction, is called Tech Support, shalom.